In this episode, I get to speak with Marcus Aurelius Higgs.
Marcus Aurelius Higgs, a communication coach specializing in supporting parents of preteens.
If you’re a parent with a child between the ages of 10-14, you know just how challenging those years can be. As our kids start going through that natural ‘identity breaking’ phase, maintaining an open and meaningful relationship with them becomes incredibly difficult.
They start pulling away, having big emotions, and may lose confidence in themselves. And as parents, we’re often at a loss for how to bridge that gap and keep those lines of communication open during such a pivotal time.
That’s where he comes in. Through his work with Certain Future, he uses an approach called ‘The SHOW UP Framework’ to equip parents with the skills they need to truly show up for their preteens.
His goal is to help you feel confident in how you communicate during emotional moments, know how to be present even when they withdraw so they continue trusting you, and support them in building resilience and self-belief.
Because the truth is, these years don’t have to be ones of conflict and distance. With the right tools and mindset, you can maintain that close bond and be there for your child as they navigate this period of immense change and self-discovery.
So whether you’re already struggling to connect, or you just want to get prepared for what’s ahead, this podcast is for you.
Let’s dive into all things preteen parenting!”
Our Guest workshop.marcushiggs.com 3 Hacks to take away
- Maintain meaningful connections with preteens by nurturing their potential and understanding the challenges they face, such as emotional mismanagement and the need for independence.
- Implement effective communication strategies like the ABC technique (Accept, Build upon, Challenge with curiosity) to manage conflicts and build trust with your preteen.
- Dedicate one-on-one “you time” with each child and avoid making assumptions about their thoughts and feelings to strengthen your bond and support their personal growth.
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